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The Traditional Breakdown of Wedding Expenses

Lei Lydle

By Lei Lydle, Founder and Editor
Last Updated: 8/10/2004 9:34:54 AM

Although you will find different variations of this list in almost every book or magazine you pick up, I have found that this is the most common and traditional division of wedding expenses.

If you are looking for some new ways to break-up the wedding expenses, read the article entitled "New Options For Wedding Expenses".

Bride

  • Wedding ring for the groom.
  • Wedding gift for the groom.
  • Gifts for the bridal attendants.
  • Personal stationery.
  • Medical examination and blood test.
  • Accommodations for out-of-town attendants.

Groom

  • The bride's engagement and wedding rings.
  • Wedding gift for the bride.
  • Gifts for the best man and ushers.
  • Groom's wedding attire.
  • Bride's bouquet and going away corsage.
  • Boutonnieres for attendants and fathers.
  • Medical examination and blood test.
  • Marriage license.
  • Clergymen's fee.
  • Honeymoon expenses.

Bride and Groom Jointly

  • Gifts of appreciation for parents or others who helped with the wedding.
  • Expenses of items desired which have exceeded original budget allocations.

Bride's Family

  • Engagement party.
  • Ceremony cost: location, music, rentals, and all related expenses.
  • Entire cost of reception: food, beverage, entertainment, rental items, decorations, wedding cake.
  • Bride's wedding attire and accessories.
  • A wedding gift for the couple.
  • Wedding invitations, announcements and mailing costs.
  • Bridesmaids' bouquets.
  • Bridesmaids' luncheon.
  • Photography.
  • Personal wedding attire.
  • Floral decorations.
  • Special items such as ring bearers pillow, toasting goblets, etc.

Groom's Family

  • Rehearsal dinner party.
  • Personal wedding attire.
  • Travel and accommodations for groom's family.
  • Wedding gift for the bride and groom.
  • Any general expense they wish to contribute.

Attendants

  • Wedding attire for themselves.
  • Any travel expenses.
  • Wedding gift for bride and groom.
  • Showers or Bachelor parties.

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Guest Lei Lydle, Editor from says...

PM -

Traditionally, the bride's parents pay for the entire reception - including alcohol. Traditionally, the only party the groom's parents pay for is the rehearsal dinner.

I keep saying "traditionally" because a lot of people these days only use those traditional rules of etiquette as guidelines and make other arrangements to suit their needs as necessary.

Good luck! ~ Lei

Posted: 8/10/2004 9:34:54 AM


Guest pm from atlanta, ga says...

i thought alcohol at the reception was the groom's family's expense. Right or Wrong?

Wedding Date: 0816

Posted: 8/10/2004 2:17:37 AM


Guest groom from says...

To answer the bride's father regarding a reception for the donors to historic landmarks, if the groom is treating the reception like a business opportunity, he should pay accordingly. The real question is how to tactifully raise the issue

Posted: 4/1/2004


Guest S Willims from Spokane Washington says...

Good and simple, but I am the brides father. The reception is for 300 guests. There will be 30 people I know. Most of the guest will be people who have donated sum of money to restoration of historic landmarks. The groom is a fund raiser for these landmarks. Who pays for reception?

Wedding Date: Late August

Posted: 3/23/2004


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